Parents share insights as one-year-old Preben starts daycare in Ålesund, Norway

Preben, a one-year-old child, is set to start at a daycare in Ålesund, and his parents, Elin and Mats, share their thoughts and advice on the process. Elin believes that having a third child like Preben gives him an advantage, as he is accustomed to playing with other children. Mats admits he is excited but slightly nervous about watching Preben grow during this transition.

The daycare director, Synnøve Vassbotn Folkestad, emphasizes the importance of saying goodbye properly during drop-off. She advises against sneaking away when a child is engaged in play, as it’s essential to establish trust. This sentiment is echoed by Anne Greve, a professor in early childhood education, who encourages parents to communicate their concerns with daycare staff.

As families across Norway prepare for the start of the school year in August, many are feeling the stakes of this new chapter. Elin shares that she felt more anxious for her first child but is now more confident as Preben is involved in various activities from a young age, including sports and social playdates.

Elin recalls the initial challenges during drop-off for her other children, emphasizing that a quick and cheerful farewell helps ease the process. Greve provides ten tips for parents navigating daycare transitions, including the significance of a consistent goodbye and the importance of fostering independence in their children.

Ultimately, both parents are optimistic. Mats believes that if they manage the initial separation well, Preben will thrive. Elin sees daycare as a valuable opportunity for children to build relationships with peers and adults, contributing positively to their social development.